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Written By Fredrik

June 25, 2018, 11:59 a.m.(1/28/1009 AR)

Relationship Note on Derovai

you are totally correct, my friend, in all counts. And I have realized that continuing to blow this morning is without real benefit, no matter how refreshed I feel after such a display of flexibility.

Written By Fredrik

June 25, 2018, 11:55 a.m.(1/28/1009 AR)

Relationship Note on Fairen

Some people love to use a 'oh, poor little me?' argument to try and excuse when they make rude behavior, as if such things should be beneath our notice. and most of the time it is, especially for disgraced former nobility, for example. But occasionally, when either people who I admire are attacked, or a particularly offensive opinion is stated, I decide to make a comment. But then they insist on getting the last word every time with more veiled, snide remarks, and so I shall go back to simply reading, now with growing amusement.

Written By Derovai

June 25, 2018, 11:54 a.m.(1/28/1009 AR)

I hadn't previously thought it possible to blow smoke up one's own you-know-where, but the Whites appear to be full of that this morning, on all sides of the discussion.

A new acrobatic marvel has been performed, and nobody need pay even a single silver for the privilege of entering the carnival tent.

Written By Natalia

June 25, 2018, 11:54 a.m.(1/28/1009 AR)

Relationship Note on Fairen

It's absurd.

You're being absurd.

Do you have any idea what the population of Arx is? Like, do you have any concept how many journal entries are written hourly, let alone daily?

Nobody buys for a second that either of you are reading any journals save ones you actively, specifically choose. You chose to read my journal. You're allowed to do that. It is strange to me that people I do not know or have never met have any interest in reading my journal, but it is indeed your right.

You're both still being utterly absurd.

Written By Fairen

June 25, 2018, 11:50 a.m.(1/28/1009 AR)

Relationship Note on Fredrik

Here I was under the understanding that that was how everyone presumed the white journals functioned. Thank you for enlightening me to the contrary.

Written By Natalia

June 25, 2018, 11:50 a.m.(1/28/1009 AR)

I read a claim today that someone reads all of the white journals as they "come in".

I wonder how on earth he manages to get anything at all done, given how many tens of thousands of entries there must be every day written by all of the people that live in Arx.

It must be nice to have so much free time!

Written By Fredrik

June 25, 2018, 11:42 a.m.(1/28/1009 AR)

A gentle reminder that all White Journals are readable by everyone (and often are, and encouraged to do so as part of keeping their fingers on the pulse of at least part of the public opinion), and that if one has an issue with people reading them, then Black Journals are a lovely resource for recording things for posterity that won't be shared. And since I read /all/ public journals, more or less, as they arrive, not to think they are special for me reading theirs.

Written By Natalia

June 25, 2018, 11:38 a.m.(1/28/1009 AR)

Strange nobleman are reading my journals again!

How delightful.

Written By Fredrik

June 25, 2018, 11:24 a.m.(1/28/1009 AR)

Relationship Note on Natalia

"But when you respond remain humble, remain respectful." From the initial journal entry in question.

Irony is ripe, given your initial response. All I will say on the matter.

Written By Fairen

June 25, 2018, 11:24 a.m.(1/28/1009 AR)

Relationship Note on Natalia

Someone is particularly aggressive about having the attention of the white journals placed on her. This most certainly must be another attempt to start an argument over something minor.

Written By Natalia

June 25, 2018, 11:21 a.m.(1/28/1009 AR)

Relationship Note on Fredrik

How dare I answer a direct request for input on a particular topic! It isn't as if it were put forth as a discussion topic for the journals or anything.

Oh wait.

Written By Clara

June 25, 2018, 11:17 a.m.(1/28/1009 AR)

Relationship Note on Fredrik

Thank you for your participation, Fredrik. I am thankful for your kindness and support in sharing my general opinions with people. I would love to discuss this topic further with you in person or through messengers. I am certain that my own beliefs are not perfect and could use some debate on them. I in no way think that what I said is what everyone should practice. It is merely food for thought and I think everyone should form their own opinions and live in accordance with their own hearts. And of course, in accordance with the beliefs of The Faith to many of us hold very dear.

Written By Clara

June 25, 2018, 11:12 a.m.(1/28/1009 AR)

Relationship Note on Natalia

I thank you for your wisdom. Your words will not be ignored. I hope you have a fantastic day and a peaceful life. ~ Clara

Written By Fredrik

June 25, 2018, 11:09 a.m.(1/28/1009 AR)

Relationship Note on Clara

From: Desk of Lord Fredrik RedTyde
Subject: Humility

I appreciate your thoughts on humility, Lady Clara, and did not see, at any point in your post, where you placed yourself above the need to be humble. But apparently offering advice not aimed at any particular group or decision is something to be belittled and snarked upon these days, even when you pointed out these are personal opinions and not something to be taken as stone-written edicts.

I for one thank you for the ideas, and while I may not agree wholeheartedly with all of them, I will digest them more before remarking.

Written By Natalia

June 25, 2018, 10:53 a.m.(1/28/1009 AR)

Relationship Note on Clara

I might recommend that before you attempt to give the populace advice, you take that advice yourself, first.

So much focus on telling people to listen to others (you, perhaps?) without making any effort to listen yourself.

My input for the 'friendly discussion' is that those who preach humility might like to find some, first.

Written By Preston

June 25, 2018, 10:39 a.m.(1/28/1009 AR)

When a noble is learning to count his coin, a Godsworn is studying the Gods. When a noble is exploring his lands to see what he rules, a Godsworn is on pilgrimage to see all the places of the Gods. When a noble is learning how to sit and deal in councils and courts, a Godsworn is engaged in deep contemplation on the nature of the Gods. When a noble is building walls to defend his people, a Godsworn is preaching and speaking to the people to fortify their hearts and Faith against evil. When a noble is ruling, a Godsworn is praying.

We do not tell you what crops to get your people to sow, we do not tell you what design for your castles you should use, we do not even tell you where to send your armies. We will advise where our specialism, such as the priests of Petrichor and crops, comes into it - but only ever that. A suggestion, not an argument.

Written By Thena

June 25, 2018, 10:33 a.m.(1/28/1009 AR)

Relationship Note on Clara

Let me know when you take your Godsworn vows. I’ll be sure to attend.

Written By Clara

June 25, 2018, 10:26 a.m.(1/28/1009 AR)

To: The Population of Arvum but especially our Spiritual Leaders to whom the populace looks to as an example of what we all should strive to be.

Subject: Humility
Theme: Ethics & Morals

Purpose: To engage the population in a ‘friendly’ philosophical conversation.

Journal Question: What behaviors might you need to meditate and reflect on in order to make yourself more humble?

Body: Humility is perhaps one of the more important practices that many seem to overlook. This is especially true to those that feel they are worth more than their neighbor because they are born noble or born into wealth. Even I fall short here sometimes and have to remind myself that I am no better than my neighbors and the people that I serve.
It is important to me as a noble woman that I remember that I was born to privilege but that privilege comes with the responsibility to be a proper example to my people. I don’t mean that everyone needs to have the best manners but it is important to remember that when one is in service to another they should not view themselves as any better than the person next to them. It doesn’t matter our position or our status. On the inside we are all made of the same thing. We all suffer through life and we all have passions and needs. Whether or not one has silver in their pockets or a title affixed to their name we are all the same in the end, our souls spun back into the world by the Queen of Endings as she wills.
Yes, there are those of us with more responsibility but it is those of us with more privilege that need most to remember to be humble. We are the creation of the Gods. We are not our own creation. It is not for us to decide whose life does or does not have more value than the next. That is arrogance and too much pride is its own sin. It is important to remember that without the foundation a building will fall. Society is no different in this regards. The King may rule us all but without nobles he has no one to help govern the people and without people there is no one for nobles to govern.
Without a House there is nothing for a Sword to protect. Without people there is no House. Likewise, the Gods and Spirits stand atop of humans (I will not debate order of importance and nor should you as it will only cause a painful argument for us all.) We depend on their existence to help bring meaning to our lives and without them there would not be Shamans and Archlectors and without believers there might not be any of the above. So true is it that without plants and herbivores… predators, like humans, would not have that which we need to sustain us. Argo, we are no better than any other life. Our lives and our souls are no more or less important than the next.
Now, a reminder here that this is all a personal stance. I am not saying anyone with a differing view is incorrect. But when you respond remain humble, remain respectful.

Thoughts on how to be more humble:
* Listen. Listen. Listen. You don’t need to hear the sound of your own voice. Let other people talk and actually HEAR what they have to say. Think about it and then once you’ve thought about how your response will impact the person, speak.
* Don’t take credit for your deeds. Charity for the sake of Charity is better, and truly charitable, when you are not hearing the praise of the people. Sometimes, it is good just to do the right thing because it is the right thing.
* When you are wrong… admit it and don’t forget to apologize.
* Remember that no way is the absolute way. No way is better than the next if it isn’t bringing suffering to another.
* Share the knowledge and opportunities given to you.
* Remember those who have given to you and give them credit for it.
* Don’t value yourself over anyone else.
* Help others as often as possible.
* Remember that winning isn’t everything. Sometimes there are lessons to be learned in failing.
* Recall that when you believe you have learned all that there is to learn you have already missed out on the next lesson.
* Acknowledge and own your faults. No one is perfect and we all have our shortcomings and sins of choice.
* Be positive when criticizing others. Encourage others to fulfil their own dreams and meet their own goals.
* Take the criticism of others with grace and find the lesson in their words. Don’t focus on the pain it may cause and if there is pain… why does it hurt? Is it true?
* Don’t boast about your successes.
* Accept praise given to you but don’t boast about it or go on and on about it. Just say thank you and move on unless you are asked for more details. Don’t assume people care and want you to share.
* Remember that everyone is different and many of us have differing views on the world. You don’t have to conform to everything you’re told but tolerance and coexistence are important to practice so that we can all live in peace.
* Serve others before yourself.
* When you need help… ask. Don’t be stubborn and do it on your own. These are my thoughts on the topic and I would love to hear your thoughts but once again please keep it civil and remain humble.

Written By Aahana

June 25, 2018, 2:07 a.m.(1/27/1009 AR)

Shimmying and spinning
Laughing and grinning
Talks to know more
Trying to get closer to the core
I swear I felt my heart prance
As I preformed my family dance
Never ever once mean
Lovely eyes of green
May reside within my dreams
Perhaps he is who my heart deems
Only time will tell
if both our hearts fell

Written By Tesha

June 25, 2018, 12:07 a.m.(1/27/1009 AR)

This week has been busy for me. Meetings with a few prospective merchants, visiting the Redrain ward and attending the Spirits and then back to Redrain to attend a Sword ceremony. I feel like I've not been out this much in awhile. I guess I really should keep my head out of the books for a few days and get out more.

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