Written By Natalia
June 25, 2018, 10:53 a.m.(1/28/1009 AR)
Relationship Note on Clara
So much focus on telling people to listen to others (you, perhaps?) without making any effort to listen yourself.
My input for the 'friendly discussion' is that those who preach humility might like to find some, first.
Written By Preston
June 25, 2018, 10:39 a.m.(1/28/1009 AR)
We do not tell you what crops to get your people to sow, we do not tell you what design for your castles you should use, we do not even tell you where to send your armies. We will advise where our specialism, such as the priests of Petrichor and crops, comes into it - but only ever that. A suggestion, not an argument.
Written By Thena
June 25, 2018, 10:33 a.m.(1/28/1009 AR)
Relationship Note on Clara
Written By Clara
June 25, 2018, 10:26 a.m.(1/28/1009 AR)
Subject: Humility
Theme: Ethics & Morals
Purpose: To engage the population in a ‘friendly’ philosophical conversation.
Journal Question: What behaviors might you need to meditate and reflect on in order to make yourself more humble?
Body: Humility is perhaps one of the more important practices that many seem to overlook. This is especially true to those that feel they are worth more than their neighbor because they are born noble or born into wealth. Even I fall short here sometimes and have to remind myself that I am no better than my neighbors and the people that I serve.
It is important to me as a noble woman that I remember that I was born to privilege but that privilege comes with the responsibility to be a proper example to my people. I don’t mean that everyone needs to have the best manners but it is important to remember that when one is in service to another they should not view themselves as any better than the person next to them. It doesn’t matter our position or our status. On the inside we are all made of the same thing. We all suffer through life and we all have passions and needs. Whether or not one has silver in their pockets or a title affixed to their name we are all the same in the end, our souls spun back into the world by the Queen of Endings as she wills.
Yes, there are those of us with more responsibility but it is those of us with more privilege that need most to remember to be humble. We are the creation of the Gods. We are not our own creation. It is not for us to decide whose life does or does not have more value than the next. That is arrogance and too much pride is its own sin. It is important to remember that without the foundation a building will fall. Society is no different in this regards. The King may rule us all but without nobles he has no one to help govern the people and without people there is no one for nobles to govern.
Without a House there is nothing for a Sword to protect. Without people there is no House. Likewise, the Gods and Spirits stand atop of humans (I will not debate order of importance and nor should you as it will only cause a painful argument for us all.) We depend on their existence to help bring meaning to our lives and without them there would not be Shamans and Archlectors and without believers there might not be any of the above. So true is it that without plants and herbivores… predators, like humans, would not have that which we need to sustain us. Argo, we are no better than any other life. Our lives and our souls are no more or less important than the next.
Now, a reminder here that this is all a personal stance. I am not saying anyone with a differing view is incorrect. But when you respond remain humble, remain respectful.
Thoughts on how to be more humble:
* Listen. Listen. Listen. You don’t need to hear the sound of your own voice. Let other people talk and actually HEAR what they have to say. Think about it and then once you’ve thought about how your response will impact the person, speak.
* Don’t take credit for your deeds. Charity for the sake of Charity is better, and truly charitable, when you are not hearing the praise of the people. Sometimes, it is good just to do the right thing because it is the right thing.
* When you are wrong… admit it and don’t forget to apologize.
* Remember that no way is the absolute way. No way is better than the next if it isn’t bringing suffering to another.
* Share the knowledge and opportunities given to you.
* Remember those who have given to you and give them credit for it.
* Don’t value yourself over anyone else.
* Help others as often as possible.
* Remember that winning isn’t everything. Sometimes there are lessons to be learned in failing.
* Recall that when you believe you have learned all that there is to learn you have already missed out on the next lesson.
* Acknowledge and own your faults. No one is perfect and we all have our shortcomings and sins of choice.
* Be positive when criticizing others. Encourage others to fulfil their own dreams and meet their own goals.
* Take the criticism of others with grace and find the lesson in their words. Don’t focus on the pain it may cause and if there is pain… why does it hurt? Is it true?
* Don’t boast about your successes.
* Accept praise given to you but don’t boast about it or go on and on about it. Just say thank you and move on unless you are asked for more details. Don’t assume people care and want you to share.
* Remember that everyone is different and many of us have differing views on the world. You don’t have to conform to everything you’re told but tolerance and coexistence are important to practice so that we can all live in peace.
* Serve others before yourself.
* When you need help… ask. Don’t be stubborn and do it on your own. These are my thoughts on the topic and I would love to hear your thoughts but once again please keep it civil and remain humble.
Written By Aahana
June 25, 2018, 2:07 a.m.(1/27/1009 AR)
Laughing and grinning
Talks to know more
Trying to get closer to the core
I swear I felt my heart prance
As I preformed my family dance
Never ever once mean
Lovely eyes of green
May reside within my dreams
Perhaps he is who my heart deems
Only time will tell
if both our hearts fell
Written By Tesha
June 25, 2018, 12:07 a.m.(1/27/1009 AR)
Written By Tesha
June 25, 2018, 12:05 a.m.(1/27/1009 AR)
Relationship Note on Khanne
Written By Tesha
June 25, 2018, 12:02 a.m.(1/27/1009 AR)
Relationship Note on Arik
Written By Bashira
June 24, 2018, 11:59 p.m.(1/27/1009 AR)
Relationship Note on Harlex
Written By Olivia
June 24, 2018, 11:58 p.m.(1/27/1009 AR)
Written By Selene
June 24, 2018, 11:55 p.m.(1/27/1009 AR)
Written By Caith
June 24, 2018, 11:50 p.m.(1/27/1009 AR)
Relationship Note on Luca
LUCA.
Oh. My. Goooooooooodness.
Written By Natalia
June 24, 2018, 11:47 p.m.(1/27/1009 AR)
We're all settling in well, though.
Compared to how it could be going.
Podraig has quite a bit of adjusting to do.
Written By Shard
June 24, 2018, 11:34 p.m.(1/27/1009 AR)
Relationship Note on Audric
Written By Galen
June 24, 2018, 11:30 p.m.(1/27/1009 AR)
It will be interesting to see what the results of this little experiment will be. I should be prepared for the worst and hopeful for the best.
Written By Audric
June 24, 2018, 11:29 p.m.(1/27/1009 AR)
Relationship Note on Vandred
Written By Audric
June 24, 2018, 11:29 p.m.(1/27/1009 AR)
Relationship Note on Jacali
Written By Lisebet
June 24, 2018, 11:19 p.m.(1/27/1009 AR)
Written By Seth
June 24, 2018, 11:18 p.m.(1/27/1009 AR)
The other, the hostess herself.
This was certainly an evening that everyone in attendance will never forget.
Written By Luca
June 24, 2018, 10:57 p.m.(1/27/1009 AR)
Relationship Note on Caith
CAITH.
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